FORGIVENESS

Human is a spot where forgiving and forgetting lies.
No matter how great the person is…. Someone must have fault. Which means faults that someone else does could be also made by you.

If you can’t forgive the other. Someone else could do the same to you too.
There are three response we can find in things of forgiving.

First, you forgive people after you took a revenge which is more than what people do to you.
Second, you forgive people after you paid it back with the same thing or deed that people has done to you.
Third, you forgive people and you give in to Allah then you demand it back in the end day. And you could also give it in all to Allah and wish for Allah’s punishment.

There are many possibilities and behavior that we can find in the way of responding forgiveness.

Someone say ; “ I forgive you but …”
But dear friends….
That is not a forgiving.
Forgiving is omitting, erasing, deleting.

There’s no “but” in forgiving…..
Forgiving sincerely is omitting and erasing all bad things deep in our heart which is caused by the action that people do to us.

That’s all the resume which I made from the show of Kultum presented by Pa’ Quraish on TV.
In that case… all things which is wrong would come from me.

In this chance, I’d like to ask forgiveness to you all, my relatives in Islam.

Wish we all are belong to a group of people who forgive others sincerely.

Jakarta, 20 September 2009